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Uncover & Rewrite the Survival Patterns Costing You Money, Love and Freedom

An 8-Week Live Coaching Container ~ Limited to 10 Women 

If you're an ambitious woman, whether you're building your own business or running the room in corporate, and you want more money, love that doesn't cost you yourself, and a life that actually feels free, then you already know something most people around you haven't quite figure out.

 

You know the discount you gave last week had nothing to do with the client's budget. You know it's no coincidence that the couple of men you dated were the exact same guys, with different names. You've likely done some therapy, some journaling, maybe even some yoga and a weekend retreat, so you're clearly not short on insight or knowing that something bigger is going on. And you know, somewhere deep down, that whatever keeps pulling you back to not asking for more money, staying too long in a relationship started longgggg before the job or the relationship.

Somewhere in your past, a survival pattern was built to keep you safe, and it's still quietly running your money, your love life and your career.

You're right about that, and you've probably been right for years. Now let's go and find it.

By the end of this program,

you will....

 

  • Know the Pattern Underneath it All

    Your pattern, identified and traced back to where it started. Y

    You'll know which survival pattern keeps showing up in your relationships, money, work, and decisions—and where you learned it.

    Most women spend years trying to fix each problem separately without realizing they're connected. Once you can see the pattern clearly, you'll start spotting it everywhere: in the invoice you haven't sent, the raise you haven't asked for, the boundary you keep moving, and the text you're drafting at 11 p.m. Usually a good few seconds before it gets its way.

  • Choose Differently When It Actually Counts

    Because seeing the pattern isn't enough.

    The real change happens in that tiny gap between the automatic yes and the answer you actually mean.

    You'll learn how to recognize when the old pattern has taken over, stay with yourself long enough to hear what you actually want, and make a different choice.

    Again and again.

    Until choosing yourself doesn't require a three-hour internal debate.

  • An Easy 'No' That Doesn't Come with a Three-Day Guilt Hangover

    You know the one.

    You finally say no, then spend three days replaying the conversation in the shower and drafting apology texts you never send.

    You'll learn to let someone be disappointed without immediately assuming you've done something wrong. You'll set the boundary, survive the discomfort, and get on with your Taco Tuesday.

    Guilt doesn't have to disappear. It just stops getting to dictate the situation.

  • Trust Yourself Enough to Act 

    You probably know more than you give yourself credit for. The problem is what happens after you know.

    You feel the answer, then question it. You know the relationship isn't right, then find twelve reasons to stay. You want the opportunity, then convince yourself you're not ready. Your gut says no, but everyone around you thinks you should say yes—so you stop listening to your intuition and your intuition is just waiting for you to come back online.

    You'll learn to recognize the difference between an old survival response, someone else's expectations, and what you actually know and want.

  • Start Negotiating for Yourself

    In money, work, relationships—and what you're willing to accept.

    You'll ask for the raise. Hold firm on your pricing. Ask for what you want. And stop adding “but I'm flexible” before they've even answered.

    When the silence comes, you'll learn to hold your ground instead of immediately lowering the price, changing the boundary, or deciding you were asking for too much.

    Because settling was part of the pattern. Now you get to decide what you're willing to accept.

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What’s Inside Un-Limited

This isn’t eight weeks of talking about your childhood and blaming your past foreverrrr.

We don't do victimhood in this group. We do empowerment here.

We’re going to figure out what you learned, what you started doing because of it, and where that same pattern is still making decisions for you today - in your relationships, your money, your career, and the things you keep saying you want but haven’t gone after.

Because you can understand yourself really fucking well and still keep repeating the same pattern. This is where we change that.

 

Section One:

Find the Pattern That Keeps Showing Up

You’re not coming into this work clueless. You’ve probably done therapy, read the books, listened to the podcasts, journaled, meditated, and become pretty damn self-aware.

And yet there are places in your life where you keep doing the same thing.

You bite your tongue to keep the peace. You know you deserve the raise but don’t ask for it. You take care of everyone else and then wonder why you’re exhausted. You keep choosing relationships where you give more than you get. You know what you want—and then talk yourself out of it.

We start there.

Not with what’s wrong with you. With what keeps happening.

Inside this module, you’ll:

  • Identify the patterns showing up right now in your relationships, money, career, and decisions.

  • See where seemingly unrelated problems may actually be connected.

  • Recognize the situations that trigger your old responses before you automatically act on them.

  • Get clear on what you actually want instead—not what you think you should want.

Section Two:

Where It Started & What You Learned to Do

Once you can see the pattern, we work backward.

Because you didn’t wake up one morning and decide to become the woman who never asks for help, keeps the peace, settles for less money, stays in crappy relationships with men too long, or feels guilty every time she chooses herself.

Somewhere along the way, something taught you that behavior made sense.

This is where we look at the experiences, relationships, family dynamics, expectations, and Unwritten Rules™ that shaped you—and the Invisible Agreements™ you may still be living by without realizing it.

Not so you can spend the rest of your life analyzing your childhood.

So you can stop letting something you learned at 8, 15, or 25 decide what you're allowed to do at 45.

Inside this module, you’ll:

  • Trace your current pattern back through your Life Experience Map™ and Generational Pattern Map™.

  • Identify the beliefs and Unwritten Rules™ you inherited about love, money, success, being a “good woman,” and what you're allowed to want.

  • Uncover the Invisible Agreements™ you made to stay loved, safe, accepted, or connected.

  • Separate what actually belongs to you from what you learned to carry.

  • Recognize the strength, wisdom, and power you've developed through what you've lived—not just the patterns that came from it.

Section Three:

Stop Letting the Past Decide the Future

Knowing where something came from doesn't automatically stop you from doing it.

This is where the work gets real.

Because the pattern isn't usually a problem when you're sitting on your couch journaling about it. It shows up when your boss puts you on the spot. When someone you love is disappointed in you. When it's time to name your price. When the guy you've been dating pulls away. When your family thinks you're making the wrong decision. When your gut says go and every old part of you says don't you fucking dare.

You'll learn to recognize that moment, and make a different decision.

Not because you're fearless. Because you finally know the difference between an old survival response and what you actually want now.

Inside this module, you’ll:

  • Learn to catch the old pattern while it's happening instead of figuring it out three days later.

  • Learn what happens in your body when an old response gets activated and how to stay present enough to choose differently.

  • Separate fear, conditioning, and other people's expectations from your own intuition.

  • Practice asking for what you want without immediately explaining, apologizing, or backing down.

  • Start making decisions from the woman you are today instead of the version of you who originally learned the pattern.

And this is where Unlimited stops being something you understand intellectually and starts becoming something you can see in your actual life.

Because the point isn't to become endlessly stuck in healing and becoming more and more self aware.

The point is to be free enough to do something different.

When you join Un-limited, you’ll get:

8 Weeks of Live Group Coaching

Eight weeks to uncover the survival pattern that's been quietly running your relationships, money, and work—and learn how to stop letting it make your decisions.

This isn't a course you buy, watch three videos from, and forget your password to six months later.

We're doing the work together, not alone, because co-regulation matters.

8 Weeks of the Unlimited Method

You'll move through the process of identifying your pattern, tracing where it came from, understanding how it's showing up now, and learning how to interrupt it when it actually happens.

So instead of having five different “problems” to fix, you can finally see what's underneath them—and know what to do when the old pattern shows up.

Live Teaching + Real Coaching

This work gets a lot more interesting when we take it out of theory and put it against your actual life.

The conversation with your boss. The relationship you can't figure out. The price you're afraid to raise. The family member who can still make you feel twelve years old in under thirty seconds.

You'll have a place to bring what's happening in real time and work through it while you're actually living it.

Your Personal Pattern Maps + Tools

You'll build your own Life Experience Map™, Generational Pattern Map™, identify your Invisible Agreements™ and uncover the Unwritten Rules™ you've been following without realizing it.

These aren't worksheets you'll complete once and throw in a drawer.

They're tools for understanding why you do what you do—and catching the pattern before it makes another decision for you.

A New Way to Make Decisions

By the end, you won't need me standing next to you every time life gets uncomfortable.

You'll have a way to ask:

Is this what I actually want or is this my good ol' trusty survival pattern talking?

And you'll have practiced answering that question with real decisions involving your relationships, money, work, boundaries, and what comes next.

The goal isn't to spend the rest of your life analyzing your patterns. It is to go on a freakin' upward spiral woman!

I Can't Wait for You to Join Unlimited

Everything inside Unlimited came from my own life first.

I spent years doing the work to understand my survival patterns and change them.

I've stayed in relationships long after I'd mentally packed my bags, and I've kept the peace so often I should have been paid for it. I've carried things that were never mine to carry and ignored my intuition while she was practically waving a semi-truck-sized red flag at me. I've started over more than once.

Along the way, I had to learn, usually the hard way, how to tell the difference between a decision I actually wanted to make and one being made by a worried or scared younger part of Jess.

With more than 20 years in Fortune 500 sales and leadership, I've negotiated multimillion-dollar business deals and led in corporate rooms where the pressure never let up. I watched the same patterns that run our love lives show up at work. They showed up in what we asked for and what we tolerated, how much we took on, when we stayed quiet and whether we trusted ourselves enough to make the move.

I've spent more hours on therapists' couches than on my own sofa, with over 15 years of my own therapy including EMDR, IFS, structural dissociation work, Somatic Experiencing, CBT, shamanic healing and energy work. If it has a name, I've probably tried it. I also co-developed an equine-assisted EMDR model and co-led trainings for psychotherapists learning to use it with their clients, so I've sat in both chairs. That work gave me a new way to see how an old experience keeps shaping our reactions long after it's over.

This winter, my book Start Choosing You will be published. It's about how our experiences shape what we believe and how the ways we adapted follow us into adult life.

The biggest lesson from all of it sits right at the center of Unlimited:

You can be highly talented at your job and more self-aware than your last therapist and still have an old survival pattern quietly making decisions you don't realize you're making.

Seeing mine gave me something I'd never really had before: the freedom to choose differently.

I started asking for what I wanted and leaving when something wasn't right. I made decisions other people didn't understand, and eventually I stopped assuming discomfort meant I'd chosen wrong.

Most of the time, that discomfort was simply what choosing myself for the first time felt like.

Unlimited is for the woman who can feel that something is still sitting underneath it all. Maybe it's the relationship she can't figure out or the money conversation she keeps dodging. Maybe it's the boundary that won't hold or the decision she's second-guessed eleven times this week.

I am no longer at war with my truth. I hope the same for you. Jess

Here’s What You’re Getting When You Join Unlimited

Unlimited — 8 Weeks of Live Group Coaching

Eight weeks with other women in the same work - live teaching, real coaching, your personal pattern-mapping work, and the tools to identify the survival pattern that's been running your relationships, money, and work—and start making different decisions when it shows up.

No inflated “$8,000 value.”

No pile of bonuses you don't need.

Just the actual work we're here to do.

Normal Investment

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 $2,444 PAY IN FULL

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